Welcoming a Newborn: What the First Weeks Are Really Like

Nothing quite prepares you for the moment your baby is born. Then you go home with someone who needs you day and night, while you're still recovering yourself.

Every birth is different

Some births go to plan, many don't. However yours went, it's your story, and there's no right or wrong way to give birth. If something keeps bothering you afterwards, talk about it with your midwife. That's what they're there for.

Chaos is normal

The first weeks are mostly feeding, changing and holding your baby. The days blur together and the house is a mess. That's fine. Every baby is different too: some feed easily, others need more time to get the hang of it. If you're unsure about anything, ask for help early.

Let people help

When someone asks "can I do anything?", say yes. Ask them to bring a meal, or to hold the baby while you have a shower. Plan visits for when it suits you, and keep them short.

Close to you, hands free

Newborns like being held, which makes it hard to do anything else. A carrier helps. The Solace Carrier is suitable from birth (3.2 kg), with your baby facing you and an adjustable neck support. The first time, ask your midwife to check the fit.

Give yourselves time. You're both new at this, and it gets easier week by week.